Last summer we visited my sister in Green Bay. She has this amazing garden that is so beautifully manicured and tended. It is a little fenced off section on the side of her house and my daughter loved opening the gate and walking up and down the rows sampling the bounty.We talked about having a garden at our house and decided it would be a good birthday present for our daughter. So we called our friend who built us these amazing garden boxes trimmed at the top in a way that she could sit on the edge to tend to her plants.
For her birthday she received plants, seeds, gardening books, garden ornaments, and a kneeling pad. When she asked my sister what the kneeling pad was for, she was shocked to discover that weeding was a part of gardening.
On Memorial Day, she and I set out to plant the garden. I really thought she would enjoy it. And she may have, except that all the neighborhood kids had congregated in the backyard 3 houses down. While we were working on her boxes we could hear them having a great time. So after much begging, I let her join the others and I finished planting her garden.
That's when it finally occurred to me...she doesn't actually want to garden, she just wants a garden. A garden that I will plant, weed, and tend...and she will eat.
When I told this to my mother-in-law, she said there's a story about that called The Little Red Hen. I know that story. The funny thing is – so does my daughter. It's one of her favorites.
Great Post, I have had the same experience!
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